Life Space Crisis Intervention

As studying life space crisis intervention I decided to take the time and figure out what my personal life space crisis intervention would be. The first step is to focus in the incident. This is very important because I believe i jump to the end result a lot of times and try to solve everything and make both parties happy. I need to focus in the incident first to get the real story and get to know what to do next. It will also give time to both of the parties who were in a fight or disagreement to calm down. I would go to one person at a time and ask them to tell me what happened, truthfully. While I am talking to one person there will be as assistant or helper keeping an eye on the rest of the people. You should never be with children by yourself anyways. After hearing the story from everyone involved I would bring the group or parties together to talk about it and discuss it. In this little meeting I will have a few more volunteers or other staff just in case something breaks out and I need some assistance taking care of it. After talking out the incident I would then ask the kids involved what hurt them the most and what they think their, not any one else's, but their consequences should be in regard to the way they acted. We will talk it out and discuss their discipline and make sure that both I and they agree it is fair. I will then discuss that just because they messed up doesn't make me think any less of them but i just want to help them correct the negative activities or attitudes. I will tell them I still love them just the same as I did before the incident happened. After this we will resume activities and make sure that the incident is not brought up again rather than between me and the ones being disciplined.
When doing this I need to watch when I am about to get angry and always have someone there to help me. I need to be able to ask someone to step in if I am getting too worked up so I could go and cool down and collect myself rather than saying all kinds of bad things I really don't mean.